Wednesday, November 5, 2008

I don't really care if anyone ever reads this.  But just in case you do.  Here is some background on me.

I live in Charleston, SC.  I am in my late 20's.  I am a college graduate.  I have a successful career.  I have a loving family and great friends.  I love the outdoors.  I am not rich, but do ok.  I don't like adult cartoons.  I hate it when someone gives you a wet willy.  I love my dog.   I have never had a serious relationship.  I have only been with one person.  I am single, in the city.

Growing up - I had the two most loving parents you could ever meet in your life.  They never fought with each other, they always held hands, always said I love you.  They have been married for 30 years next fall.  My mom never worked while I was growing up, instead she stayed home with my brother and I until we were in high school.  The four of us were (and still are) a very happy family.  Because of my up bringing I have only ever desired one thing, a family.

I used to joke that in college I was getting my MRS. degree.  After graduation came and went and the real world slapped me in the face I ended up here in Charleston.  I got a job doing what I love and was on my way to a great career.  This is something I never imagined.  Truthfully I never wanted a career.  I just wanted to graduate and get married - imagine my surprise when I found myself loving my job.

So here I am, 27 and single.  I know, I am young right?  What's the rush?  No rush really.  I just wish that there was a promise of my dream of having a family to come true.  Right now, there's nothing.  Like I said, I have a great family and amazing friends, but at the end of the day - I have nothing to come home to, and that gets a little old.  It's the same story with me, one failed disfunctioning non-relationship after the next.  I have terrible luck with men, I am serious.  You'll see.

So over the next several posts I will share my thoughts (with whoever) on my love life or lack there of, my relationships of the past - and anything that may happen to come up in the future. 

Til next time,

Still Single In The City

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